Cooperation and communication:
The success of long-distance parenting depends a lot on parents working together and keeping the lines of communication open. If there is no communication then it will hard for the patent living afar to keep up with the life of their child. Parents have to put their child’s needs above theirs and work together to make sure that the child is able to enjoy the presence of both parents.
Take advantage of technology:
When you have no option other than long-distance parenting then you need to make sure that you make the best use of technology. The channels of communication have improved a lot and now your child does not need a letter to arrive. You can call your child every day and stay up-to-date about their life. Face-time gives you important to have some one-on-one time. It is not the same as being there but it is close enough. Virtual visitations show kids that you are interested in their life. Make sure that you create a schedule for virtual visits especially if there is too much time difference.
Stay involved:
Involvement is crucial for successful parenting. It is important to understand that no matter how many virtual visits you make they will never replace in-person visits. No matter how busy you are you need to find time to pay an in-person visit whenever you. Be aware of important events taking place in your child’s like a first recital or an important game and make sure you are present for important moments.
Do not spoil:
A parent needs to understand that spoiling the child is not going to make up for a missing scheduled in-person visit. If you try to buy their affection then you will be spoiling them and undermining the authority of the parent they are living in. It is important to respect the rules out in place by the other parent and also accept that you made a mistake. Kids are forgiving and by showing them commitment you will be able to earn their love pretty easily.
Conclusion:
The rules for handling long-distance parenting should be mentioned in the custody agreement if parents are divorced or separated. There should be little room for flexibility and both parents should respect it.
Post was bewerkt op 13-12-2019 08:59 door Phoebe